Starting or returning to school can be an exciting and nerve-wracking experience for everyone, but it can be especially so for queer students who may be navigating an environment that isn't always inclusive or understanding. However, with the right support, your time in school can be not only enjoyable but also empowering. Remember that your journey as a queer student is unique and may have its ups and downs. Be patient with yourself and trust that things will get better over time. Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you, and never underestimate your own resilience. In this blog post, we'll share some valuable tips for queer students starting school to help you thrive academically, socially, and emotionally.
1. Find Supportive Communities
One of the most significant steps you can take is to seek out and connect with supportive communities both within and outside of your school. Look for 2SLGBTQ+ student groups, clubs, or organizations where you can meet like-minded peers who understand your experiences. These groups can provide a safe space to share your thoughts, challenges, and triumphs. Not sure where to begin? Here are a few hubs for students at some popular Ontario Universities/Colleges:
TMU: https://yourtmsu.ca/
Humber: https://humber.ca/lgbtq/content/we-are-proud
UofT: https://lgbtout.sa.utoronto.ca/
George Brown: https://www.georgebrown.ca/current-students/services/2slgtbqia-community-index
Sheridan: https://www.thessu.ca/sheridanpride
YorkU: https://tbl.gay/
2. Know Your Rights
Familiarize yourself with your rights as a queer student. Many countries have anti-discrimination laws in place to protect 2SLGBTQ+ students from harassment or discrimination. In Ontario, there are several anti-discrimination laws to protect you as a 2SLGBTQ+ person. Knowing your rights can empower you to speak up if you encounter any issues and seek help if needed. Each education institution should also have policies and strategies in place against discrimination as well as protection of equity-owed communities including 2SLGBTQ+ community. These policies and strategies can usually be found on each school’s site. Here are a few of them:
TMU: https://www.torontomu.ca/equity/
Humber: https://humber.ca/knowthecode/
UofT: https://safety.utoronto.ca/#ui-id-7
George Brown: https://www.georgebrown.ca/about/anti-racism-equity-and-human-rights-services/2slgbtqia
YorkU: https://www.yorku.ca/safety/policies/other-safety-related-policies-procedures-and-guidelines/
Helpful links:
Bill 94, Keeping 2SLGBTQI+ Communities Safe Act, 2023 - Legislative Assembly of Ontario (ola.org)
Rights of LGBTI persons - Canada.ca
3. Build a Support System
Your support system doesn't have to be limited to 2SLGBTQ+ individuals. Reach out to teachers, counsellors, or staff members who are known allies or advocates for the queer community. Having supportive adults in your corner can make a world of difference.
4. Communicate Your Needs
If you ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe in your school environment, don't hesitate to communicate your needs to teachers, administrators, or counsellors. Talking to a professional can provide you with valuable tools and strategies for coping with any challenges you may encounter. They may be able to make accommodations or offer resources to help you feel more at ease. For a list of 2SLGBTQ+ community resources, visit our resources page.
5. Educate Others
If you feel comfortable and safe doing so, educate others about LGBTQ+ issues. Sometimes, people may not understand or be aware of the challenges queer students face. Your willingness to educate can help create a more inclusive and accepting environment. Educating others does not always have to be large-scale or at the expense of your mental health. Sometimes education is simply a discussion with a friend or family member. Your point of view can influence others to advocate on your behalf, creating change on a larger scale. Remember, it isn’t your responsibility to educate others,
6. Self-Care is Essential
Starting school can be overwhelming, but self-care is crucial for your well-being. Take time to decompress, engage in activities you love, and practice mindfulness. Remember that it's okay to take breaks and prioritize your mental and emotional health.
7. Be Proud of Who You Are!
Embrace your identity with pride! Your queerness is a beautiful part of who you are, and it's worth celebrating. Don't let anyone make you feel otherwise. Surround yourself with people who appreciate and value you for exactly who you are.
Starting school as a queer student may come with its own set of challenges, but it also offers incredible opportunities for growth, self-discovery, and advocacy. By following these tips and seeking out the right support, you can make your school experience not only enjoyable but also transformative. Embrace your uniqueness, be proud of who you are, and know that you have a community of allies and friends who are here to support you every step of the way.
